We are aware that some women also cheat, and at the end of this article, we will provide a form for the ladies to tell us why they cheat. It's only fair, right ladies? Communication is very important in all relationships. Ladies, the men are about to communicate with you. Will you listen?
Men cheat because they can. They cheat because it's exciting. Different. Fun. They also cheat because the relationship/marriage that they're in right now is boring and dull.
"She just let herself go."
Drastic weight gain and wearing the same old ugly sleep shirt to bed every night can be a major turn off. Many men complained that the woman they fell in love with used to take extra special care of her looks, wardrobe and hygiene. "She always puts on any old thing, and doesn't even wear makeup or fragrance anymore."
"Sex? What Sex?"
"We used to make love 3 to 4 times a week. Now that we've gotten married, I'm lucky if we make love once a month. She always has a headache. When I am lucky enough to get her in the mood, she just lies there. I wasn't being satisfied at home, so I went elsewhere."
"I needed a change."
"Our relationship was b-o-r-i-n-g. Everyday, the same thing. Up at 6:30 a.m. out at 7:30 a.m, home at 6:00 p.m. Dinner at 8:00 p.m. Bowling every Saturday. She never wanted to do anything different. I was sick to death of the same old routine."
"I cheated because I could."
"I'd stay out late with my boys, she never cared. Well one day my boy hooked me up with his girlfriend's friend, it's been on ever since. I just tell my boo that I'm out with my boy, she never questions me."
He just might be cheating if...
- He goes away without you, often.
- He comes home late, often.
- He starts to stay out all night.
- He doesn't keep his word.
- Lately he has a headache.
- He talks about a female friend, a lil' too much.
- He gives you very expensive gifts for no apparent reason.
- He joins the gym, and goes religiously.
- He buys a pager.
- You get hang up calls at night.
Many men are visual, and are attracted to attractive females. Attractive doesn't have to mean drop dead gorgeous; it can mean someone who is reasonable fit, clean and full of life! Look into the mirror. If you don't like what you see, chances are people looking at you won't either.