The best way for love to grow is to water it daily with kind words. If you want love, then give love. Give what you most want to receive in your own life. Want someone to love you? Are you relationship material? Would you fall in love with you? Starting today, start loving yourself more. That makes it easier for others to love you too.
Turn up the volume of your life. Start living and loving full out. What does that mean? It means to put meaning, intimacy, and balance into your life.
Meaning: Ask yourself these questions, no matter how old or young you are. Why are you here on this planet? What can you do to fulfill your life and positively impact another person's life? You want to change the world? Change yourself and be kind to all who you come in contact with. As Gandhi once said, "Be the change you want to see in the world." The best way you can remember those who died is to become the best YOU you can be. Become more of who you are and who you would like to become.
Intimacy: Get in touch with who you are. Embrace all of you - warts and all. As soon as you stop trying to cover up and hide who you are, or parts of who you are, then you'll stop hiding out from life. And you'll start really living your life. Don't go through your life alone. Life is all about relationships. Want to have a great life? Start letting others into your life. Open up yourself. Start connecting with people and start connecting with a special someone. Right now, can you name 3 people you could call and say I love you? Then call them. If not, then it's time to let someone or someones into your life.
Gals do you want to know how become more intimate? Open yourself up. Become vulnerable by becoming the Queen Bee. Let a man and all men cherish you. Let a guy give to you. Let him provide, protect and serve you. And you in turn, give him your love. Make him your hero. That's the law of circulation. A man loves to make a woman happy. He lives for that. So stop being an Alpha Female and start being a soft feminine woman who loves herself enough to allow herself to receive from a man. And, don't you love it when a man tries to make you happy? Don't you feel special when a man treats you special? So get it while you can…and remember to give back to him your love. And there are lots of different ways to express your love to him - romantically, emotionally, physically but it all comes down to this for a guy. He wants "his" woman to admire, respect, and appreciate him for what he does and who he is. Many guys, but not all, think who they are is defined by what they do. That's not really true…and that's why they need you Queen Bees to help them with that.
Guys do you want to know how to become more intimate? Don't let rejection get in your way. As Susan Jeffers says, "Feel the fear and do it anyway." Walk up to that girl you're dying to talk to but afraid you'll die of embarrassment of not knowing what to say and do if you "do" walk up to her. Guys, take a risk. Remember what Shari Sez about dating, "Don't take what someone else does or doesn't do…personally." If she doesn't say hello back or turns you down for a date, remember don't take it personally. It's not about you. Besides, it's her loss. And remember, women (and men) are like trains…another one will be along in five minutes. If a train doesn't stop at your station, then it's not your train. So, move on. Men, allow yourself to get close to someone. The only way you will ever grow in this world is by having a relationship and committing yourself to someone other than yourself.
Balance: The best way to live and love full out is to put balance in your life - spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. Guys and Alpha Females don't let work take over your life. Create some space in your life to allow someone to come in. Start living your life now. Turn up the volume. Don't put yourself, love, and your relationship on hold anymore.