Sunday, April 13, 2008

Dating Wisdom And Sweet Talk When You Feel Like a Disheartened Dating Soul

Dating can be hell. I know, I've been there. It can make you crazy. When you feel like a disheartened dating soul, here's some dating wisdom and sweet talk.

Sweet Talk is guaranteed to entertain and provide a different point of view, especially for those moments when relationship book wisdom goes out the window, when you forget all the good advice, or when you're angry, frustrated, annoyed, irritated, depressed, or even pessimistic. You might even be at that stage where you're ready to give up dating because you think there is nothing out there but frogs and ducklings!

Not to worry. You're just having a very special dating moment! Get a Sweet Talk attitude adjustment guaranteed to entertain you. It could make you laugh, even think, but it definitely will be informative and/or make fun of your frailties.

  • Be willing to risk. Risking means to dance like nobody's watching
    and to love life like it's never going to hurt.

  • Never interrupt when you're being flattered.

  • In dating, there's nothing more attractive about a person than their
    honesty, confidence, vulnerability, enthusiasm, and inner happiness
    shining through, except money or twentysomething skin if you're in LA.

  • Great love and great achievement require great risk.

  • Love is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself
    on fire.

  • Relationships are the treasures of life. Happiness and satisfaction
    are the real wealth not stocks and bonds.

  • The best relationship is one in which you keep falling in love over
    and over and over again·with the same person. 

  • Want to connect with a guy? Don't try to impress him. Ask him questions
    that will give him the opportunity to impress you. Then shut up and
    listen to him.

  • Men and women are like trains, another one will be along in 5 minutes. 

  • We make plans and God laughs. 

  • Did you ever think that God wants us to meet a few wrong people so
    that when the right one finally comes along we'll be grateful?

  • Your love should always exceed your need for each other.

  • Let's face it. If you can't laugh at yourself, you're just not funny.
    No wonder you got dumped. Lighten up. 

  • The only way to make your date or partner trustworthy is to trust
    him or her.

  • There is a light at the end of the tunnel. And it's not another train. 

  • S/he said it was all about me, then why do we always wind up talking
    about you?

  • Whatever your belief is about your boyfriend or girlfriend that's
    how s/he will show up and be to you.

  • When a guy says he doesn't want a commitment, believe him. He's telling
    you the truth.

  • Go on every new date and into every new relationship with the attitude
    that this could be "the one." As long as you think about past
    relationships, that's what all your relationships will be.

  • Don't settle for mediocrity or con yourself into accepting a situation
    that really doesn't make you happy. You may be discouraged and tired
    of the singles scene but remember, you're much too good to settle. Besides,
    prince or swan princess charming could be your next date. If it's not
    working, move on.

  • When it's time to move on, say "next" and mean it. Stop
    doing an "instant replay" in your mind. Dating can be like
    tennis. You hit the shot and it's bad. You go on with the game because
    you can't take it over. So stop thinking about it. NEXT

  • Keep your heart open. Your heart may hurt, but as long as it's open,
    there's room to let someone in. When a heart is closed, there's no place
    to let love in. 

  • Don't say "I love you" unless you mean it and you're willing
    to stand by it. 

  • When you're in a disagreement with someone you care about, deal exclusively
    in the present with the current situation, don't drag up the past.

  • Ever hear yourself say, "Dating shouldn't be this hard? Listen
    to that voice and stop wasting your time on the wrong partner.

  • When writing a personal ad or profile, be compelling, irresistible
    and captivating.

  • Have sex, be satisfied for a day. Teach your partner what you want,
    be satisfied for a lifetime.

  • In a world where words are easily misconstrued, kisses can be soft
    and reassuring as butterscotch, a kiss nourishes and warms the soul.

  • Stop dating anyone who is rude to the waiter.

  • The five most essential words for a healthy, vital relationship: "I
    apologize" and "You are right".

  • If he says that you are too good for him--believe him.

  • Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect, it just means you've
    decided to see beyond the imperfections.

  • Everyone always seems normal until you get to know them.

  • Creating high drama and perpetual crisis will eventually drive anyone
    healthy away; only the twisted stay.

  • Connecting with another is called bonding not bondage.

  • I'm so miserable without you, it's almost like you're here.

  • When you're with the right person and it's the right time, it's effortless
    you know.

  • Living well is the best revenge. Being miserable because of a bad
    or former relationship just proves that the other person was right about

  • The reason why you may or may not be dating is… A loving person
    lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world.
    And everyone you meet is your mirror. And you are…?

  • You have a neck so you can stick it out. Take a dating risk today
    and see your love life improve.

  • Dating is like shopping. You pick it up, buy it, and test it out.
    You like it - you keep it, if not - return it and shop for something

  • Is your love life as limp as overcooked spaghetti? Get some dating
    coaching and start really cooking.

  • If you think the grass is greener on the other side, try watering
    your own lawn.

  • Want to make sure you communicate? Talk straight to the heart because
    that's where real talking starts.

  • Anyone who falls in love quickly can fall out of love just as quickly.
    Life is not a two hour made for television movie.

  • If someone is emotionally unavailable, ask yourself this question.
    Do you want a partner or a pet project?

  • When dating, experience is what you get when you don't get what you

  • A relationship is for building and entertaining not for built-in entertainment.

  • Just because you attract someone into your life, doesn't mean you
    have to sleep with them.

  • When someone loves us or we think they love us, our world becomes
    so much brighter.

  • Sex doesn't create a good relationship. A good relationship creates
    great sex.

  • When you need love, give love. You'll be amazed at what will happen
    to you and to your new and old relationships.

  • Fun and Love are all around you. You simply have to know where to
    look. So open your eyes and open your heart.

  • Be in the mood for love because Valentine's Day is all about letting
    LOVE into your life. For this entire week show and tell everyone you
    care about just how much you love them, but remember to start with yourself.
    Happy Valentine's Day.

  • Romance begins with intention and then paying attention to your intention.

  • Creating high drama, chaos, and perpetual crisis will eventually drive
    anyone healthy away, only the twisted stay.

  • Even when you don't see eye to eye, love is true when you can still
    walk hand in hand.

  • Remember, when you build a wall around you to keep out the sadness
    you also keep out the joy.

  • Your real love partner is someone who knows the song in your heart
    and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.

  • Every great move forward in your life and in relationship begins with
    a leap of faith into the unknown. That's where magic begins. Want magic
    in your relationship? Step into the unknown.

  • Love can survive just about anything except indifference and negligence.
    Have you remembered to say "I love you" lately?

  • Love is like a mirror. If you frown at it, it frowns back. If you
    smile, it returns the greeting.

  • Just for today give your mind a rest and put your heart to work. Act,
    flirt and love as if it were impossible to fail.

  • If you give everything you have to give to a relationship, you can
    never really lose anything.

  • Your job is not to look for love, but rather to look and find the
    barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

  • Nothing is easy to the unwilling, especially in dating and relationships.

  • Nothing is easy to the unwilling, especially in dating and relationships.

  • You have to know what you want in a relationship in order to attain
    it. Other wise you'll settle for what you don't want and then resent
    both your partner and the relationship

  • Nothing is easy to the unwilling, especially in dating and relationships.

  • Could the reason that you're alone be because you've raised your romantic
    expectations to unrealistic levels?.

  • Forget about looks and wealth. They can fade. Go for someone who makes
    you smile. It takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find
    the one who makes your heart smile.

  • Good relationships are based on knowing and accepting who and what
    you are. Want to succeed in love? Stop overvaluing what you're not and
    undervaluing what you are.

  • Did you know that thousands of wonderful loving men and women live
    and die undiscovered - either by themselves or by others?

  • You are a cup, constantly being filled. Let yourself tip over and
    let the beautiful stuff called you out. That's how you invite someone
    into your world.

  • You can't be in a healthy, balanced relationship if someone loves
    you more than you love yourself .

  • Do you want to live a life of yearning for love or live a life of
    having love? What do you want to do with your life? It's all a matter
    of choice.

  • The best way for love to grow is to water it daily with kind words.

  • How often has the opportunity for love knocked on your door, but by
    the time you unhooked the chain, pushed back the dead bolt, unlocked
    the three locks, and shut off the burglar alarm - it was gone? Let yourself
    love today, because today is all you have.

  • How often has the opportunity for love knocked on your door, but by
    the time you unhooked the chain, pushed back the dead bolt, unlocked
    the three locks, and shut off the burglar alarm - it was gone? Let yourself
    love today, because today is all you have.

  • One of the great secrets to a happy, healthy, and successful relationship
    is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as

  • According to Thik Nhat Hanh, "The source of love is deep in us. We
    can help others realize a lot of happiness. One word, one action, one
    thought can reduce another person's suffering and bring that person
    joy. "

  • Have you been hurt by love? Get over yourself. Now is the only time
    you have to experience love. Don't waste the moment, it will not come
    again. The secret to life is to squeeze every drop of love out of it.

  • The problem with "what should be" in relationships and life, is that
    people keep trying to live up to it. Stop wasting your time on "what
    should be," there is only what is.

  • Love someone because you want to, not because you need them.

  • Believe in love and you'll have love. Whatever you believe with emotion
    becomes reality. You always act in a way consistent with your innermost
    beliefs. You never get what you want, you only get what you really believe
    you can have.

  • In love and in life, remember that success isn't permanent and failure
    isn't fatal.

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